Tuesday Talkies – Why I don’t like ‘Haider’

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Why I don’t like ‘Haider’?

There must be something wrong with me…. A critically acclaimed movie, which is actually liked by everyone, and I don’t seem to like it. There must be something wrong with me. 😮

Or, not?

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Haider

‘Haider’, directed by one of the most talented and one of my favorite among the few directors – Vishal Bhardwaj, is an Indian Bollywood movie, based on Hamlet of legend William Shakespeare. This movie stars Shahid Kapoor in the lead role as Haider. Tabu stars as mother of Haider and Shraddha Kapoor as his love interest. Irrfan Khan and Kay Kay Menon are also in the supporting but pivotal role.

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Why I don’t like ‘Haider’?

Haider is a story of a Kashmiri boy, who came back to Kashmir from Aligarh, where he was studying; when he hear of his father’s disappearance. Shockingly, he sights his mother, Tabu, in a jovial mood, laughing and singing in company of his Chacha/uncle, Kay Kay Menon. Disturbing, right? 👿

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Tabu with Haider- Shahid

He is searching for his father, who disappeared after he was held captive by the Indian armed personnel for assisting terrorists and hiding them in his home. While searching for his father, he embarks on a cruel and shocking discovery of torture and inhumane treatment of Kashmiris by the Indian Army and police. He soon finds out that it was his uncle who was responsible for disappearance and later murder/encounter of his father. Most shocking, his mother could also be a part of it. 😥

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Devastated Haider

Who tells him all this? Enters a Ghost – RoohIrrfan Khan, who was a cellmate to his father in his captivity. Loved this take on Hamlet.

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Why I don’t like ‘Haider’?

Whom to trust? Your own mother? Your father’s brother? A terrorist called Rooh, who claims to be your father’s friend? Your own friends Salman & Salman(hilarious stuff they do)? Or, your girlfriend, Shraddha Kapoor, who loves you but is a Indian Police/Army officer’s daughter?

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Shahid and Shraddha

This story is complex, intriguing, disturbing and immoral. Yes, this is the reason, why I did not liked this masterpiece of a movie. It is immoral of me to like this.

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Why I don’t like ‘Haider’?

It’s a fantastic movie, almost a masterpiece from Vishal Bhardwaj. It is critically acclaimed. Almost every critic has praised it to the point of giving it a 5 out of 5 stars. I will not give it 5 but will give a 4 if I can just neglect the whole Kashmir angle. It is indeed a good movie.

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Why I don’t like ‘Haider’?

My problem starts the moment, a doctor who is hiding terrorists in his compound, irrespective of his wife’s discontent, is shown as a Hero, as a savior. You are made to feel sorry for that creature who is harboring terrorists. 😡 You know why, because you are watching the movie from his son’s angle. But, tell me, in real world, whom would you call a hero –

  • a Mother who has sent his son away to study, so that he will not get involved in terrorists activities, this after she notices him hanging out with some of this genre?
  • Or, a Father who didn’t think twice of his wife and his son’s future, before inviting terrorists to his home?
Why I don't like 'Haider'
Tabu in Haider

My problem with this film does not end here.

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Why I don’t like ‘Haider’?

Mother, Tabu, is shown as if she was some kind of immoral, who was behind his husband’s murder, and as soon as he disappear, she started romancing and married his husband’s brother. Later, it was shown though, that she was innocent in her husband’s death but – it was not clear, why she still stayed with Uncle even after finding out that he was responsible for her husband’s death? Story also did not clearly depict, her problems with first marriage and why she drifted so quickly towards Uncle who was flirtatious in nature all along?

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Why I don’t like ‘Haider’?

Showing Indian Army in bad light. This is the crucial issue with this film. I don’t have any issue if you show, how they are torturing innocent Kashmiris and doing encounters in the name of action of Jehadi movement. But, are you also showing, what those terrorists are doing? You are showing that terrorists are attacking only to defend themselves, and Army is killing them even when they are unarmed and in prayers. You are showing that Army is conspiring with local lawyer/politician to propagate false agenda, while terrorists like Rooh are messiah, who are actually telling the truth and helping a lost young kid by giving him shelter in Pakistani camps. You are showing that Army is holding illegally all the disappeared Kashmiris, while terrorists are the ones who are giving their dead bodies respect by building their graves. You are telling me, that a common Kashmiri is fed up of frequent search routines done by the Indian Army, but you are not showing what could happen, if there is no search? What would happen, if there is no Army? What could happen to Kashmiris, if there is no Indian Army?

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Why I don’t like ‘Haider’?

You are showing slogans for Azaad Kashmir. You are asking “Ham hain ki ham nahin?”. But, where is other side of this story? You are showing story of Haider, but where is Hari and harmeet’s story? Why are you filmmakers always show story from a particular religions (Muslims) perspective? If you are not bothered in showing the other view point, atleast try to balance out the negativity. You could not have made this film, on Kashmir, and in Kashmir, if it wouldn’t be with the help of Indian Army and government. Respect that.

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Why I don’t like ‘Haider’?

Coming back to filmsy aspect of film. It’s a beautiful film with breathtaking backgrounds and cinematography. Songs by Gulzar – Muahh. Loved specialy the graveyard song – “aao na, so jao na”. Shahid Kapoor has done well. By far, this one is his best performance. But, it was an all in all a Tabu Film.

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Shahid in Haider

Tabu is just Tabu. She is incomparable. Her eyes, deep and calm, like ocean. Depth and mystery. You don’t know, whether to hate her, love her or sympathies with her.

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Tabu in Haider

Watch this film, just for the pure genius of Vishal Bhardwaj, because he has done the unthinkable by adapting Shakespeare’s Hamlet so beautiful in this story. I wish if he could be content enough to keep Kashmir out of it. Greedy fellow knew that Kashmir is the angle giving it all the masala and viewers too. 😛

Why I don't like 'Haider'
Watch Haider

Saturday Scroll – Buddhist Quote

“An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.”

~ Buddhist Quote

Frolic Friday – Don’t Kill Me Mamma

 

Tisha Singh
Tisha Singh

Girls are Drama. Little Girls are Drama Queen, and when it comes to my Kiddo Tisha, she is The Queen of Drama Queens. 😎

She is her Papa’s Princess, as every daughter is, but she really behaves like a Princess. She decline to walk. You can either take her in your lap or she will travel in Car. But, no walk. Not even to the Park. Infact before she steps out from home, first question she will ask is, “Are we going by car, or walk?” 😮

She is fashionable and pick her own clothes. Get dressed herself, that too, five times a day. Above all, she thinks, she doesn’t have enough clothes. This is when she has more clothes, than her two brothers have, combined. :mrgreen:

Tisha Singh
Tisha Singh

Well, this post is not about confirming her Diva status, but a recent incident which made me laugh till there are tears in my eyes. 😀

It started one fine day, actually just day before yesterday, when she ventured outside barefooted. What did she catch? A Splinter.

She got a splinter in her foot. 😦

Huge cry. Bucket of tears. Quite normal behavior you expect from a four(3.10) year old.

I caressed her and tried to calm her down. Got my tweezers and needle. Sterilize them and came to my daughter Tisha’s rescue.

First thing I heard….

Tisha: I will Kill. Mamma, I will Kill.

(meaning – I am going to die, mamma. She don’t know ‘die’ word yet. 😐 )

Oh, that almost made me laugh, but I composed myself and told her, it will be alright. Soon, mamma will fix everything. You will be fine. 😎

Tisha was constantly saying, “I will kill, mamma. Save me.” Till she saw tweezers in my hand.

Then there was a loud scream, and –

Tisha: Don’t kill me, Mamma. Don’t Kill me. Please Mamma, don’t kill me. Mamma, what are you doing? Are you going to Kill me? Please, mamma. Don’t Kill me.

I got her point. She was scared.

So I tried to console her by saying, “Tisha, I am your Doctor sweetie. I will fix you. Look, I have these tools to fix your pain, just like a Doctor do.”

Tisha: Doctor? You are my Doctor? (Crying more profoundly now)

Tisha: Doctors are Monsters. Mamma, you are going to kill me. 😥

I was laughing. Yes, I am ashamed of what I did. But, yes, I couldn’t control myself, and I laughed, and laughed, till my tummy hurt and there were tears in my eyes. By that time, splinter was securely out, but both of us were crying.

Tisha Singh
Tisha Singh

She was taken care of, with medicine and bandages (I used big ones, just to please her). She didn’t stepped down from the couch,w here she was resting, till her Papa came back.

First thing she said to her papa, “Papa, I got Kill.” 😛

Wednesday Words – I am 1 Year now

1 Year of Blogging by Jyoti Singh
1 Year of Blogging

I have completed a whole year of writing/blogging. It is not a big achievement but indeed it is an achievement, because I had never thought that I would write, and that too for a full whole year. Phew!!!

Surprisingly, when I look back and read my past posts, I laugh at myself. Not because I am an amateur (mediocre) writer but because whatever I have written so far, does not involve any brain. It’s pure heart. Whatever I have felt, I have put in words and published to the world in my blog. Sometimes personal stuff too….. now, don’t go back to archives and try to read all my personal stuff. 😉

Writing is a great thing. If I could convince everyone, I would advise them to write. No matter what you are writing, and for whom you are writing, but do write. You need not publish it to the world, just write for yourself. Because when you are writing about how you are feeling, you are actually feeling all your feelings, and this is great way to self analyze yourself and the direction to which you are going. I was always a positive minded person, but since I have started writing I have started feeling positivity in others too. Now, I don’t react unless I put myself in others shoes and think of why they did, what they did?

It’s actually meditation too, which has made me more focused, but to tell you truly, when I am writing I am thinking. I am thinking about my life, about my family, about people around me, my friends, about where I am headed in my life. Isn’t this what we all lack a self motivated direction?

What is even more satisfying is when I get positive/negative reviews and comments from my readers and followers. It does boost confidence and motivates you to do good things in your life, to be more positive, more grateful towards your life. I really feel blessed because I have changed my life and I am going strong.

Thanks to all of you. I love you guys. ❤